But how do you apply this to attract your ideal partner? When the Hero (your desired partner) goes silent or pulls away, the old programming is triggered: Chasing, Begging, and Doubt. This is the fastest way to manifest the permanent loss of the connection—because you are vibrating in Lack. FIO’s Law of the Throne: The Sovereign Creator never chases. They occupy their Throne, making their value undeniable and their partner's return inevitable.